Chaz Bono, 57, Ties the Knot – All Eyes on His Stunning Bride

I spontaneously took a day off to clean the attic, but then my husband came home early. He had no idea I was there. When I heard him speaking to someone through our bedroom door, I learned something about my husband that was worse than cheating. If you had asked me last Monday how my life was going, I would have given you the standard "tired but happy" routine. But everything fell apart the day I randomly took a day off work to clean the attic. Every time I took something up there, I'd scan the boxes and tell myself I'd clean up and organize everything that weekend. Five years' worth of weekends had come and gone, and I'd decided I couldn't put it off any longer. I randomly took a day off work to clean the attic. The kids, Emma and Caleb, were safe at my mom’s for a sleepover. Advertisement My husband, Grant, was locked into a marathon of corporate meetings. At least, that was the schedule on the fridge. The house felt oversized without the sound of sneakers hitting the hardwood or the constant hum of the television. I climbed the pull-down ladder into the attic. It smelled like aging cardboard and dry heat. I started dragging boxes toward the center of the room. The kids, Emma and Caleb, were safe at my mom’s for a sleepover. There were boxes labeled "COLLEGE," "XMAS," and my personal favorite, "DON’T OPEN." Advertisement Naturally, I opened the Christmas box first. I’m a sucker for the holidays, even in the middle of a random Tuesday. Right near the top, nestled under a chaotic web of green tangled lights, was a clay star. Emma’s first ornament! I ran my thumb over the rough edges. I could see that night so clearly. Emma was three, her tongue poking out of the corner of her mouth in total concentration. "Careful," I’d told her, reaching out to steady her wrist before she smeared the wet gold paint. I ran my thumb over the rough edges. Advertisement Grant had been sitting at the kitchen table with us. "Babe, look," I’d said, nudging him. "She made it herself." He glanced our way and gave a quick smile. "That’s great, Em. Really artistic." Then his eyes snapped back to the spreadsheets. "Daddy, it’s sparkly," Emma held it out toward his keyboard. "Mm-hmm. I see it, sweetie. Just don't get it on Daddy's laptop, okay?" I wrapped the star in tissue paper now, feeling a weird weight in my chest that had nothing to do with the attic’s lack of ventilation. His eyes snapped back to the spreadsheets. Advertisement I moved to the next box. Baby clothes! I pulled out a tiny blue onesie with yellow ducks marching across the chest. It was Caleb’s. I pressed the cotton against my nose, but it didn't smell like baby anymore. Under the onesie was a photo album with a sticky plastic cover. I flipped it open to the first page. There I was in a hospital bed, hair matted, holding a red-faced, furious Emma. Grant stood beside the bed, his hand resting lightly on my shoulder. He was smiling for the camera. He looked proud, but memories aren't photos, are they? They’re the gaps between the frames. Under the onesie was a photo album. Advertisement When I closed my eyes, I didn't see him holding her. I saw him hovering two feet away from the bassinet like it might bite him. "I’m afraid I’ll drop her," he’d whispered whenever she started to squirm. "You won't. She’s sturdier than she looks." He’d hold her for maybe 30 seconds before her first whimper, then he’d perform a lightning-fast hand-off. "See? She wants her mom. I’m just the backup singer." I turned the page in the album. He’d perform a lightning-fast hand-off. Advertisement There was Caleb, dressed as a tree for his kindergarten play. Grant had texted me 15 minutes before the curtain went up. Running late. Save me a spot. I watched the door the whole time. He slipped into the darkened gym during the last song, his silhouette brief against the hallway light. "Where have you been?" I whispered. "Traffic was a nightmare." Afterward, Caleb had run up to him. He slipped into the darkened gym during the last song. Advertisement He tugged hard on Grant’s suit sleeve. "Did you see me, Dad? I was the tallest oak!" Grant crouched down. "Of course, buddy. You were the star of the forest." "What was my line? Did you hear it?" Grant’s smile faltered. He looked at me, a silent plea for a lifeline. I stepped in, as I always did. "Every forest needs roots." Grant didn't miss a beat. He let out a loud laugh and patted Caleb’s shoulder. "That’s right! Best tree I’ve ever seen. Let’s go get some ice cream." He looked at me, a silent plea for a lifeline. Advertisement Caleb had beamed, and I'd forgotten about it until now. I reached into the final box and found a snow globe from our first apartment. It was a cheap thing, just a tiny plastic couple standing under a streetlamp. Grant bought it after our first massive fight. "It’ll always be us, Meredith," he'd promised. "Just you and me against the world." I'd believed him. Grant bought it after our first massive fight. *** Advertisement A few years later, after the kids were born and the sleep deprivation had turned our brains to mush, he’d asked me a question while we were folding laundry. "Do you ever miss it?" "Miss what? Having a flat stomach? Because yes, every day." "No," he said, not laughing. "Just us. The quiet." I’d tossed a pair of tiny socks into the basket. "They are us, Grant. They’re the best parts of us." He nodded and kept folding. "Miss what? Having a flat stomach?" Advertisement At the top of the next box was a drawing Emma had done two years ago. It was the standard family stick figure portrait. I was wearing a purple dress. Caleb had hands that were five times larger than his head. And there was Grant, near the edge of the paper, and noticeably smaller than the rest of us. "Why is Daddy so far away, Em? Is he in timeout?" Emma had shrugged. "That’s where he stands when he watches us." I sat back against the attic rafters, the drawing in my hand. Instead of being nostalgic and productive, my clean-up had turned… unsettling. It was the standard family stick figure portrait. Advertisement We were solid. That was the word I used for us. No drama, just 14 years of being stable and predictable. I heard the front door open. My pulse jumped against my skin. Grant was at work, so who could that be? I braced against the edges of the attic entrance and leaned my head out. Heavy footsteps sounded on the floorboards, then the stairs. Grant's footsteps… what was he doing home? Then I heard his voice. "Yeah, she’s gone all day," he said. I heard the front door open. Advertisement Was he on a call? He sounded relaxed in a way I hadn't heard in years. He had to be speaking to a client, right? About a colleague who was out today. I told myself it was a client. A Bluetooth headset and a business deal. Nothing to worry about. "She won't be back until after five." I heard the door to our bedroom creak open. I moved to the top of the attic stairs and gripped the wooden railing. My skin felt tight across my knuckles. Grant laughed from the bedroom. He had to be speaking to a client, right? Advertisement I don't remember walking down; just standing outside our bedroom door, staring at the painted wood. My lungs felt small, like they couldn't hold enough air. Then, I heard Grant speak again. "All the time! This place only feels like home when the kids aren't here." I didn't wait. I didn't think. I pushed the door open. I heard Grant speak again. Advertisement Grant was pacing near the dresser with his back to me, the phone pressed hard against his ear. He didn't even hear me come in. "You're lucky, you know that?" he was saying into the phone. "I’m serious, Matt. Just you and Rachel. You guys can still just… leave on the weekend. You can sleep in. You can actually breathe." I felt a strange wave of relief. He wasn't talking to a mistress. He was talking to his brother. But the relief didn't last long. He wasn't talking to a mistress. Advertisement "I miss the life we had before the kids," Grant continued. "I love Meredith, I do. But the kids… when I look at them, I don't feel what I’m supposed to feel. I just don't." I stood there, frozen. I could hear Matt’s voice through the phone, though I couldn't make out the words. "I know, but it’s the truth," Grant snapped back. "I keep waiting for some fatherly instinct to kick in. I’ve been waiting for years. But Emma’s eight, Caleb’s five, and I still feel like I’m babysitting involuntarily. If it was going to happen, Matt, it would’ve happened by now." Matt let out a low whistle that traveled through the air. "Does Meredith know you feel like that?" "I’ve been waiting for years." Advertisement Grant gave a short, dry laugh. "God, no. She’d never forgive me. She lives for those kids. If she knew I was just counting down the minutes until they go to bed every night, she’d lose it." I felt a heat crawl up my neck. I cleared my throat, the sound sharp in the quiet room. Grant spun around. We stared at each other. Through the phone's speaker, I vaguely heard Matt speaking again.   Grant gave a short, dry laugh. Advertisement Grant ended the call without looking down at the screen. "Babysitting involuntarily?" I said. Grant sighed and leaned back against the dresser. "I can't help what I feel, Meredith. I wish I could. I really do. But I still provide for them. I’m here every single day. I do the work." "That's not the same as being a father. How can we raise children in a house where their father is waiting for them to disappear so he can finally 'breathe.' They aren't a burden, Grant. They’re people. Your people." "Babysitting involuntarily?" Advertisement "Look, it's not a big deal, Meredith. We've gotten this far, and you never noticed, the kids never noticed…" I thought of Emma's drawing in the attic, her first ornament, and Caleb's play. "You're wrong. It is a big deal, and it ends now. Our kids… my kids deserve better." His face turned pale. "What — what does that mean?" "It means that I'll be filing for divorce." I walked out of the bedroom and back into the hallway. I expected him to follow me. I expected a plea, an argument, or even a shout. But I heard nothing but the sound of my own footsteps. "It is a big deal, and it ends now." Advertisement I pulled out my phone as I walked back toward the attic ladder. "Hey," I said when my mom picked up. "Can the kids stay one more night? Maybe the weekend?" "Of course, honey. They’re having a blast. But you sound… tense. What’s going on?" "I’m going to divorce Grant." There was a long silence on the other end of the line. I could hear the muffled sound of my children laughing in the background of her house. "Can the kids stay one more night? Maybe the weekend?" Advertisement "Okay," Mom said. "Okay. Come over whenever you're ready. We’ll be here." I hung up and climbed back into the attic. I needed to turn the light off. I stood in the center of the room and looked at th e boxes I’d spent all morning organizing. I'd been so blind, but now the blinkers were off; there was no going back. Grant missed the life before our children. I couldn't even begin to imagine a life without them. That wasn't a small disagreement about parenting styles. It wasn't something we could fix with a few therapy sessions or a date night. It was the whole marriage. I couldn't even begin to imagine a life without them.